Sunday, December 20, 2009

Precursor to Christmas

Even if no snowflake surfaces on December 25, we all already feel like we've had a White Christmas.

Snow started falling Friday afternoon and within a couple of hours the roads were in pitiful shape, power outages started kicking in, and then later, water became scarce. Blessedly, we were spared all the ill effects of the snow storm. The kids had only a half day of school and Bruce had taken a half day off from work to deal with the cable man coming (because I'm clueless when those techie types come to the house to hook up anything!). So we were all home as we watched the precipitation turn from rain to slush to fat snowflakes. And once the snow started, it seemed it would never stop. At its height, we had between six and seven inches of snow. That's the most snow my kids have seen at one time in their whole lives!

By suppertime, the kids were begging to go outside, so I did my job... I put the teakettle on to heat water for the hot chocolate they'd drink when they came inside. Oh, and let's not forget my other big task: to make sure everyone had gone to the bathroom BEFORE they got bundled up.

Then I watched from the kitchen and dining room windows.



They played for about two hours.

And they slept good that night! Our electricity flickered a few times, but never went out for even a whole minute.

Saturday was more of the same. The kids played in the snow in our yard for a couple of hours after breakfast. And then they were outside again for a few hours more after lunch over at my in-laws' home, which has more hills than our yard has.

My in-laws were without power, so by evening they came over for supper and "a sleepover" at our house. Right before they left their house, their water went out. And our water pressure was waning, so we filled up a couple of containers of drinking water and some other containers of water for... flushing... in case it came to that. But it didn't. After supper, the kids watched TV in the playroom and we adults watched a movie in the den. By the time the movie was over, our water pressure was back.

We know were were blessed. Via Facebook, we read about countless friends who were stuck on the interstate in traffic that wouldn't budge, or a 20-minute trip took two hours or more, or they abandoned their vehicles altogether and walked home in that cold mess. Others updated, saying they were without power or water or both.

But for us, we just had a great family evening. The kids were so excited to have their Meemaw and Peepaw over for the night. No stress. No arguing. It was truly what Christmas should be... except on a smaller scale since we weren't with our entire extended families.

Church was cancelled at the Moody's church and at ours, so this morning we had a leisurely late breakfast.

Then Spencer and Allison headed back outside, for their third straight day of snow play. Clay had had enough.

Spencer rolled a snowball as big as he could get it, then hefted it onto his sled and hauled that thing up and down a very slight hill in our front yard.



Then he had Bruce come outside and help him roll it even bigger and get it off the sled. I laughed and took this picture when Spencer told me to come outside and see what he had made. That thing is nearly bigger than he is!



Allison was content to stick with a smaller scale snowman. She built him and set him on our porch railings. He has berries for eyes and one of his stick arms fell off, but she surgically re-attached it after I took this picture, so no worries, he's recuperating nicely now.



These last few pictures are from last Sunday when the children's Christmas program was performed.

Before church in the morning, I decided to snap an impromptu picture because they ended up all dressed in the same colors. I put the boys in their matching Christmas sweaters on purpose, but must have been in a red and black mood when I picked out Allison's outfit.



Spencer is the only child of ours we could get to stick with children's choir. He has no fear. He enjoys singing, so he wanted to do it, even if we are relatively new at the church and he doesn't have really tight friendships yet.

Clay flat out refused to be involved because, although he likes to sing, and is pretty good at it, he can't get over stage fright. I feel for him, but he's doing it when they start back in January. More on that later.

Allison went to several practices, but when it came time for the long practice the week beforehand, she got all weepy and bailed on the idea. Then Sunday came and she didn't want to go to the second long practice after the morning service. I told her she would not be allowed to do the performance. Okay. But then that night, she got upset once Meemaw and Peepaw arrived and Spencer was on stage ready to perform. She's also going to do it when they start back in January. Because I don't want to hear the whining next time.

Spencer not only stuck with the choir, but he also even took on a part with a few other little boys. And he was very nervous beforehand.

But when it came time to step up to the mic, he cheesed for a minute and I thought, "Oh, he's going to be just fine." I was so glad when we got home and Bruce showed me that he actually caught Spencer right at that moment.



And here's my big boy during his few singing lines with the other few boys.



Spencer has a bit of a showboat in him. He goes back and forth between being okay in the limelight and then wavering, wondering if he's gone too far out on a limb. He's so much like Bruce that way.

Near the end of the program, the children were to sit down, but, as is so often the case, his attention was elsewhere for a few critical seconds, and he ended up being the last child standing. Now, to be honest, I couldn't tell how much of it was complete accident, and how much was a little bit planned. But watching his face, he seemed embarrassed but then okay.

And that's when Clay started laughing. Not loudly, but covering his face and pointing at Spencer. Being obvious at least to me on his one side and his grandma on his other side. And he didn't stop when I warned him the first time.

And that's when Spencer looked right at us and realized what was going on... and his face crumbled just a little bit.

And Momma got a little bit mad.

And that's why Clay is being forced to do children's choir in January.

Because you don't laugh at someone when they're being brave. Especially when they're doing something you don't have the guts to do yourself. And most especially when it's your brother.

I'm going to cut Clay a very little bit of slack and talk to the person in charge to be sure they know not to give him any lines or solos and to let him stand as far back and unobserved as possible.

But being a little uncomfortable isn't going to kill him.

I just pray he doesn't throw up on stage in front of everyone during the performance.

For now, it's feeling like Christmas!

Monday, December 14, 2009

Allison's Turn

We have been in a bit of spot since Spencer asked Jesus into his heart. If you haven't read the previous post where I told about his experience, I'll fill you in on Allison's response to the news... she cried. And then she moaned this phrase, "I'll never get to be a Christian!"

It's been awhile since we've had any twin issues in our house. And, actually, I thought I was pretty much past all those hurdles after we decided to keep them in separate classrooms when they started school. I figured the next time a twin thing came up, it would entail newly licensed teens and car keys and me praying lots.

This issue snuck up on me. But it still involved me praying lots!

Of course I reassured Allison that she could become a Christian any time she felt Jesus talking to her heart about it. But, personally, I really didn't think she was ready.

Clay asked questions for a good year before he asked Jesus into his heart. Spencer did the same. And both boys went to speak to our respective pastors at that time long before they actually prayed for salvation.

Allison has had the same opportunities to hear about Christ that the boys have had. Lots of church, VBS every summer, BSF for three years... we surround our family with Him. But she has rarely asked any kind of question that would go very deeply into spiritual matters.

After Spencer asked Jesus into his heart, I wanted to hold her back. I didn't want her to have a copycat conversion. I wished it would be truly HER experience with Christ.

But it hit me that she has not asked many leading questions because she often does not get a chance to talk much when the boys are around. Oddly enough, the boys take after me... if they think it, they say it. Allison is more like her daddy... there's all kinds of thoughts going on in their heads that the world may never know about.

I told Allison that I'd make more time for her at bedtime each evening and she could ask any question she wanted. And she has taken me up on that several times.

But I still did not feel she was getting very meaty with her questions. She was basically having me reiterate teachings she's already known about most of her life.

Last week, she started asking me (at the most inopportune times!), "Mom, can you help me become a Christian tomorrow?" Or, "Can we talk about me asking Jesus into my heart when we get home from school today?"

But then she wouldn't mention it again later.

Yesterday morning, several people were baptized at the beginning of our morning church service. And at the end, Spencer went forward to tell the church about his decision to ask Jesus into his heart. Then, last night at the evening service, the children did their Christmas program and it had the message of salvation in it. And I believe that all those things rumbled around inside Allison's head all day.

Because at bed time, she asked again: "Mom, can we talk about me being a Christian tomorrow?"

Well, I thought to myself, what's wrong with right now? Why does she keep asking about doing it later?

Do I think she understands every thing that being a Christian means? No. But she's 7 years old. I was 21 when I asked Jesus into my heart and even at that age, I didn't understand much. I learn more about what it means to be a Christian every day.

Why shouldn't she take that first step? She obviously wanted to. Who am I to stiffle that?

The Lord knew long before we did that he was blessing us with twins. And perhaps He even ordained it to be that Allison would long after Him more because her twin led the way.

So we talked some more and then she prayed for Jesus to come into her heart and be her Lord and Savior.

It'll be interesting to see how her life adapts to this new faith. I've seen my boys working out their faith and realizing the small ways God wants them to change. And it looks different on both of them. I'm sure Allison's walk will be unique, too.

Makes me think of the lyrics to the Steven Curtis Chapman song, The Great Adventure where he says:
"Saddle up your horses we've got a trail to blaze
Through the wild blue yonder of God's amazing grace
Let's follow our leader into the glorious unknown
This is a life like no other - this is The Great Adventure."

We are so blessed!

Friday, December 11, 2009

Forever and a Day

It's been awhile since I posted anything. I just haven't felt like taking the time.

Plus, more often than not, I post to keep my mom informed of what's going on here, and she's been having some computer problems. So I knew she wasn't looking.

But this weekend, she's getting some computer assistance, so I wanted to put something on here for her.

Lately, we've instituted the Kid Cleaning Crew on Saturdays in our house. You'd think that as a stay-at-home mom, I could get this house clean during the week. But I run so often to the school to do this or that with one kid or another, that I'm lucky to throw in a load of laundry and get the dishwasher running before I leave the house most days.

So Saturday mornings, we crack the whip and get everyone working together in a concentrated effort to clean house.

Now, the house might not get cleaned like it would if I did it myself, but the kids are learning to do things independently. And with all three working on the things they can do (unloading the dishwasher, folding clothes and putting their things away, cleaning bathroom sinks, gathering and then tossing all garbage into our big garbage bin, vacuuming, and cleaning their own rooms), I can concentrate on the stuff they can't yet do. Or the things that I don't yet have the patience to "let" them do... like scrubbing toilets. Not that any of them have really been eager to try that yet.

Anyway, with us all working together for a little over an hour, the house gets presentable.

I love it! The kids are learning to do it without grumbling, too. Mostly because I told them that every time they grumble I will take away a toy of my choosing. And that toy will not be returning.

So far, only one toy has left the building. All our Thomas the Trains are gone.

This is win-win for me. The house gets cleaned and toys get purged.

This first picture was of Allison during one of our Saturday cleaning sessions. She got herself properly outfitted as a Putzfrau. She'd make a fine German cleaning lady. I think the sunglasses are to make sure she feels pretty even if she is on her hands and knees, vacuuming. Whatever it takes!



The next three pictures are head shots of the kids, because they've changed so much lately.

Both boys have let their hair grow out - Clay's by his own choice, and Spencer because I think he needs a little more hair on top when it's so cold outside during the winter. (Buzz cuts are for summer!)





Allison and I went last night to get our hair cut. She wanted it short. And she wanted bangs. I would love to keep it longer and sans the bangs. But I found a wad of hair on the floor the other day after she took scissors in hand to cut her own 'do. I figured it was time to let her have her way. It's just hair! We settled on semi-short with wispy bangs.



I'm not posting a picture of my haircut for at least two weeks. And there's a reason for that. I'm feeling a little bald right now.

I told my hairdresser I wanted it short again and to do what she wanted. Well, what she wanted is a good inch shorter than what I typically do.

My boys have told me repeatedly that they do not like my new cut because I no longer look like Mom. Allison has been mum on the subject. I think because I gave her a pep talk before we went on how to act should she get a haircut she does not like.

Bruce is wise enough to exercise his right to remain silent. Because whatever he says can, and will, be used against him.

I don't necessarily dislike the cut. I'm just getting used to it.

It's just hair. Luckily, mine grows faster than kudzu in the south during summer, so I'm good.